I’ve been working on a few long (but hopefully, highly educational) LRs and theoretical/technical posts lately. Look for those in the coming days.
I’ve also been busy juggling dates and going out for crazy fun lately. On Friday, I spent a passionate night and then a magical morning and afternoon with Girl A, one of my new regular girls. Then on Saturday, I had Girl B, an even newer girl, over at my place for a sleepless night of crazy sex.
The problem was, when Girl B was naked on my bed waiting for me, Girl A called. I ignored. But she kept calling and texting every few minutes. I went to put my phone on mute, but Girl B stopped me and said, “That’s a girl, isn’t it? Don’t worry, I don’t mind. Just answer it. I’ll wait.” Wow, I guess my intention mapping skills were getting better (or maybe she’s just a super open-minded girl; remember, this is China and not LA or NYC, after all). So I answered.
Girl A said, “You’ve got a girl, there don’t you?” I neither denied nor admitted anything. I just kept up some fun cocky-funny banter and then, saying I was going to sleep, I hung up. But then Girl A sent a flurry of texts saying that I was such a player and that she knew I had another girl there, etc.
She’s suspected all along that I have other girls, but it must have really hurt to know that another girl was in my bed just half a day after we parted so romantically. I feel horrible for her. She hasn’t returned my texts yet. I guess I didn’t do my intention mapping properly and got her too attached to me.
Geez, this keeps happening to me. Girls keep wanting more. I think it’s got something to do with the type of girl I like. I don’t like the party girls who sleep around. That just turns me off. I’m done with random sex with random strangers. That kind of life is meaningless. I like girls who’ve got their careers together, are ambitious, romantic, and caring, just the type of girl I want to have a long-term relationship with and just the type of girl who would open up and become vulnerable to me. Power requires responsibility.
