Been doing a ton of traveling lately, which is par for the course whenever I’m back West. I’m currently in Michigan for a few days, so here’s a shout-out to my mid-West peeps 
Had an awesome time hanging out with Adam Lyons (AFCAdam) and his GF, Amanda, over the past weekend in Toronto. They’re a cool and fun couple. More on that in a later post.
Also, a brief reminder that there are a couple of spots left on The Social Man’s Spark of Attraction bootcamp in New York on July 11-13. It’s an awesome deal as you get all three consultants working on you all weekend long.
I’ve been getting quite a few requests for more lay reports (LRs) and asking about my policy on LRs, which I’ve hinted at. So here it is.
1. I think LRs are good if they’re educational. But the vast majority of LRs I’ve seen, including some by very well known pickup “gurus,” are basically brag reports that say very little beyond: I met her, said some witty things, she liked me, I took her here and here and here, and we had sex, aren’t I awesome?
As you can tell from the great lengths of my LRs, I go into considerable detail, and even then I still leave out quite a lot that we said and did. Often, it took me longer to write the LRs than it did to actually lay the girl! I also make sure I chart what I was thinking and feeling during the key moments to give you a sense of my internally-driven game.
So if you cannot write an LR that is educational and detailed, then it’s better that you don’t write one at all. So until I get the time to write a substantial LR, I will hold off on writing more.
Plus, after a while, they get very repetitive. I had a standard day 2 that I ran on a bunch of girls in a row. I was basically doing the exact same things, so there’s not much point in reporting on all of them.
2. I have the utmost respect for every single girl who sleeps with me. I do not wish to disrespect them in any way.
In the past, I’ve been in the uncomfortable and unfortunate situation of having one of my girls with me at a bar and then some fan or lair guy asks me, “Hey, is that HB[whatever]? Man, she’s got a great ass” (or something to that effect). The last thing I want is to have some creep eyeing one of my girls and knowing all these intimate details about her personal life and how I seduced her. That’s just not fair to the girls.
So my new policy is: If I still see this girl in any capacity–as a friend, a fuck-buddy, or a long-term relationship–I will not write a lay report about her.
Those who know me also know that I guard my time carefully. So I simply do not invest more than an hour in a girl unless I plan to see her regularly in the future. Why waste all those hours you’ve invested into attracting and seducing her on a one-night stand? Like Style said, I prefer ten-night stands.
I do, however, get the occasional ONS with little effort, like last weekend, so maybe I’ll write up a couple of those. I’ll see. I’ve already got a long backlog of important articles coming up, but keep your eyes peeled for an LR or two very soon.
Happy playin’, The Asian Rake.
